‘So, did you tick the squares which show a cycle or bus or traffic lights?’ 🤔
My friend laughed and gave me a thumbs up. 👍
‘Was your input then reviewed by a lovely bot that decided whether you are human enough?” I asked with a smile. 🤖
‘Yeah. I know where this is going.” She said.
“Screening and boundaries before acceptance… if only we did this level of due diligence before entering into relationships right??!” I asked with a sigh.
She nodded. As a psychiatrist she has seen every kind of relationship trouble under the sun.
“Relationships are a lot like greatness!”
“You know what I have realized? Relationships are a lot like greatness! Some we are born with, some are thrust upon us and some we create.
The relationships that we are born into and the ones that get thrust upon us will shape so much of the way we choose to create the others that it’s mind blowing we are not taught the skills and capacities needed to navigate this wild and unpredictable journey!” 😐
“Absolutely!” I said in complete agreement.
“It’s quite ironic, isn’t it? In this age of advanced technology and artificial intelligence, we seem to have mastered the art of programming machines, but when it comes to programming our own real intelligence, especially in relationships, we’re often left scratching our heads.”
“Isn’t it wild?” She mused.
We are clueless when it comes to our own OS…
“We want the perfect smartphone with the best apps and flawless camera and whatnots but faced with our inner apps that evolved a million years ago we are still clueless.
We are unable to delete the trigger apps that got downloaded in our childhood. We don’t debug or trash our Big Files of the Fight We Had on that Tuesday after my Birthday Party and you said this and this and this.” 😒
I really had a hearty laugh at that.
Those Big Files my ex and I had downloaded into our system crashed the mainframe of your marriage. We had no anti virus software to protect us and no tech support to call.
As a final straw when we switched it all off and then on again, the 2.0 version of the relationship had us living separate lives waving a divorce decree like a flag of independence.
No complaints from me because this 2.0 version has less malware, no surveillance, more stability and definitely less crashed tabs! 🙋♀️
So what can be done to reboot our relationships without crashed tabs?
How do we make sure that our Emotional Intelligence is as good at making our lives easy as Artificial Intelligence does?
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